Songwriting – get the most out of your collaboration group

Joining/creating a songwriting group can be an incredibly rewarding experience, both creatively and socially. Whether you’re a seasoned songwriter or just starting out, collaborating with others can spark new ideas, help you overcome creative blocks, and refine your craft. We all start off thinking the next great song is going to happen and a bolt out of the blue will give the “magic song”. But songwriting collaboration is about persistence, maturity and discipline mainly – it is a practice that is rewarding in itself to build community. All the main radio artists we know and love mainly get their songs from other writers who have been working on this craft for years, or have had some song ideas for months and years sitting waiting! Also, please note songwriting collaboration will test and challenge your maturity as a person and Christian. Immaturity often hinders and does not typically produce great songs or community. To help you make the most of your songwriting group experience, here are five key points of wisdom in my experience to keep things moving forward:

  1. Show Up with an Open Mind

    When you walk into a songwriting group, leave your ego at the door. Be open to feedback and willing to explore new ideas. Everyone’s musical style and approach will be different, and that diversity is what makes collaboration exciting. Listen actively, ask questions, and embrace the unexpected. You might discover a new direction for a song or learn a technique you hadn’t considered before.
  2. Define Clear and Reasonable Expectations

    Before diving into creative sessions, take the time to set clear expectations with your songwriting group. Discuss the group’s goals, how often you’ll meet, and what kind of feedback to expect. Agree on how collaborative projects will be handled and what the process will look like. Setting these guidelines early on ensures that everyone is on the same page and prevents potential misunderstandings down the line. If publishing/royalties/ownership is a concern the leader can have release forms ready to sign denoting song ownership and contribution as you see fit. This is typical in professional collaborations.
  3. Be Prepared but Flexible

    Come to each session with something to share, whether it’s a melody, a lyric, or just a concept. Preparation shows respect for the group’s time and keeps the creative energy flowing. However, don’t be so attached to your ideas that you can’t adapt. Collaboration often means letting go of control and seeing where the creative process leads. If you choose an idea you have, make sure you can part with it!
  4. Offer Constructive Feedback

    When giving feedback, focus on being helpful and specific. Instead of saying, “I don’t like that,” try offering suggestions like, “What if we tried a different chord progression here?” or “The lyrics are great, but maybe we could play with the rhythm to make it more dynamic.” Positive and actionable feedback fosters a safe environment for creativity to live.
  5. Embrace Collaboration

    Songwriting groups are all about collaboration. Don’t be afraid to blend your ideas with others or to build upon someone else’s concept. Often, the best songs come from a mix of perspectives and styles. Collaboration can push you out of your comfort zone and lead to artistic growth. If you only love your ideas this kind of group may not work for you. The point is we mix multiple ideas to be one better one.
  6. Follow Through and Stay Engaged

    After each session, take the time to work on the ideas generated. Follow through on any collaborative projects and share your progress with the group, make simple recordings on phone or laptop mic, interface and mic. Consistent engagement not only shows your commitment but also keeps the creative momentum going. Plus, sharing your completed work with the group can be incredibly validating and inspiring for everyone involved.

By approaching your songwriting group with openness, preparation, and a spirit of collaboration, you can turn each session into a valuable and inspiring experience. Some songwriting collaborations I have been a part of, led to great deeper friendships.

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